Then, I would certainly not advise trying to treat him yourself to any extent. I'm sure he appreciates your concern and help - so certainly don't discount your own aid.
Thank you guys, it did start a couple days ago, so at least that's not too awful damning. I'll be sure to take those steps to getting them the help they need.
Then, yes. That is basically a tulpa here, hah. Just one with rather... Specific personality forcing and, as far as I am aware, forced restrictions on their behavior and developmental changes?
I'm pretty new to soulbonding but became interested in it when someone in a group mentioned and has a relationship with a character they bonded with.
4:17 AM
I guess so..
4:17 AM
When I heard about tulpas, I wasn't sure if I wanted to make one because I didn't feel I had the power to create a real live being in my mind.
4:18 AM
But when I discovered that people have been having relationships with their favorite characters and found out what it was basically, I needed to find out more about.
4:19 AM
Someone told me I would still need to go through a process as if I'm making a tulpa with a soulbond I believe.
Indeed. Essentially, if you want to have a "relationship" with the character itself, you may be better served simply using your imagination in general.
I don't know all of the implication of a soulbond, but as far as I am aware it is meant to be like a tulpa except forced to identify as the character and act as the person interprets the character. S
there are many tulpas based on fictional characters, known as fictives, but they don't try to "become" the character, and instead they develop their own personality not particularly related to the character
@Deleted User most "soulbonders" have beliefs more similar to yours, that characters are "actually" real in their own universes, and they are bonding with those characters. You won't find any information about that, specifically, here.
Tulpas do have access to your memories, procedural and semantic - though they typically have a different "viewpoint" of sorts with your chronological/experiential memory.
4:28 AM
So, the goal is to develop them by giving them experience and going from there, rather than starting from a fixed point and going along a linear path.
4:28 AM
Soulbonds are not the same in this as far as I am aware - you would have to look up a soulbond community for more detailed information (as mentioned before).
4:29 AM
At the very least, do apply critical thought to what you are told to decide what you think. It's always safer to do that to avoid getting information that can negatively impact the way you think.
Hah. You have your whole life to make the decision, but it should be viewed as a permanent decision if you choose to make one - a tulpa, at least. I would say so for a soulbond as well, for the sake of security.
There's a post over in the subreddit that talks about how a person's conversation with their tulpa tends to run in a patterms of "talk response talk response". I figured I'd bring the question up here at all and ask if any of you have noticable patterns that pop up when you communicate with your tulpa?
in the early days, it was a bit like that for us. I would have to say something and listen carefully for the response. now they just butt in whenever they like :)
Hypothetically, would it be considered cheating if Tae ends up being better at games than me, so we pull a yugioh and switch so she can beat people at games instead of me?
I wouldn't worry about it too much, You are your tulpa are very well linked together, I'd say that if one of you has a skill then the other is fine to claim it as their own.